Curry Blake (audio podcasts / video)
Curry Blake was recommended to me with words "There is this guy who raised his daughter from the dead. Check it out." And I did. I picked up New Man seminar and rocked my world. This can help you understand many things, get rid of many sacred cows and religious stuff that is hindering you from the life you were created for.
When you get the understanding that we are to be disciples of Jesus and we are supposed to be like Him, I would encourage you to listen to Dan Mohler, so you understand how it's possible without getting into works - how we are transformed by grace through faith by knowing HIM.